Find Your Pleasure. Life
with Leán Bakker
7 DAY COUPLES RETREAT
Soul sex works in three levels:
Soul sex is all about connecting intimately with your partner on a satisfying soul level.
You might find yourself at a stage in your relationship where your love-making has room for improvement.
Level 1 is all about you:
You learn how to switch your own light on.
A physical, spiritual process of understanding your own authenticity, freedom, truth and pleasure. Being yourself fully, enjoying yourself fully and giving expression to yourself fully.
Level 2 is all seeing your partner
You learn how to keep your own light burning, while witnessing the light in your partner.
Respecting your partner's individuality authenticity and truth. Truly seeing them for who they are and understanding the agreements between you as a couple. The play of allowing, meeting, accepting and celebrating each other. Here we learn about communication, expressing needs and respecting boundaries.
Level 3 is about weaving your light during love-making
You learn how to make love with your whole body and soul.
This is an advanced way of making love. You can enter an orgasmic state which lasts for many hours. Your love-making is not only genital based, but incorporates the entire body of both lovers. The result is that your souls learn to make love. This kind of love making will stand the set of lime and can we carried well into your old age as a couple.
Each couple will get an additional 3 hour one-on-one session with your facilitator, Leán. During your individual session, you may address any specific needs or questions for you as a couple.
RETREAT OUTLINE:
Friday 21 July
Day Theme: Truth
4PM: Welcoming Ceremony - Truth Temple
Before you arrive, think about your intentions for the week. Prepare by writing your intentions as a couple and as an individual. These intentions may be the same or may be different
8PM: Shared Dinner
Saturday 22 July
Day Theme: Be Yourself
8AM: Breakfast
Morning Ecstatic dance and wholeness meditation
9:30AM - 1PM: Workshop
Focus on the expression of every person as an individual. Understanding my Anima and Animus. Expressive art processes.
Rest of Day: Free time with homework
You are free to roam the beaches and local hang-outs with some simple homework of applying the morning teaching to real life.
Sunday 23 July
Day Theme: Yes to authenticity
8AM: Breakfast
Morning Ecstatic dance and wholeness meditation
9:30 AM - 1PM: Workshop
Understanding your couple communication style. Changing the dynamics. Seeing each other, listening, dropping judgement and patterns for one day. "Yes" day
Rest of Day: Free time with homework
You are free to roam the beaches and local hang-outs with some simple homework of applying the morning teaching to real life.
Monday 24 July
Day Theme: Vulnerability
8AM: Breakfast
Morning Ecstatic dance and wholeness meditation
9:30 AM - 1PM: Workshop
Nature connection meditation. Solitude hike.
Sharing circle
Rest of Day: Free time with homework
You are free to roam the beaches and local hang-outs with some simple homework of applying the morning teaching to real life.
Tuesday 25 July
Day Theme: Pleasure
8AM: Breakfast
Morning Ecstatic dance and wholeness meditation
9:30 AM - 1PM: Workshop
Accessing your own ability to feel pleasure. Understanding your relationship or blocks to pleasure. 7 ways of giving and receiving touch.
Rest of Day: Free time with homework
You are free to roam the beaches and local hang-outs with some simple homework of applying the morning teaching to real life.
3PM- 5PM Workshop for men (optional)
How to delay ejaculation and stay hard for longer
Wednesday 26 July
Day Theme: I see the light in you
8AM: Breakfast
Morning Ecstatic dance and wholeness meditation
9:30 AM - 1PM: Workshop
Really seeing your partner. Witnessing and being witnessed. Partner honouring rituals
Rest of Day: Free time with homework
You are free to roam the beaches and local hang-outs with some simple homework of applying the morning teaching to real life.
Thursday 27 July
Day Theme: Weaving energes
8AM: Breakfast
Morning Ecstatic dance and wholeness meditation
9:30 AM - 1PM: Workshop
Ecstatic pleasure channels and movement through you as a couple. How to maintain a focussed bliss state.
2PM: Closing circle
Private one-on-one consultation
Each couple has the opportunity to book a two hour one-on-one session with Leán.
In the session, you can raise any issues, you would like guidance on as a couple
THE VENUE
DALUNG - BALI
YOUR FACILITATOR:
Leán Bakker
My background as professional dancer, choreographer and performance artist, gives me a foundational knowledge of the body as expressive tool.
I am a qualified Voice and Movement Therapy (VMT) practitioner. VMT explores expression of the emotions through voice, breath and postures. These therapeutic practices are crucial in helping clients release unexpressed emotional blocks. Voice, movement and breath are also the building blocks of sensual, tantric body connection.
I live in beautiful Cape Town, from where I run a successful sexuality coaching business. I work with men, women and couples to heal and restore their relationships to their bodies and their pleasure.
My field of expertise is energetic orgasms and kundalini energy.